The Crisis Of Family Relations

MANY FAMILIES FACE THIS AT SOME STAGE OF THEIR RELATIONS. IT IS BELIEVED THAT EVERYTHING HAS A BEGINNING WITH BROKEN CROCKERY AND A PETITION FOR DIVORCE. BUT IN FACT IT IS THE BEGINNING OF THE END. AND IT ALL BEGINS WHEN THE COUPLE IS ONLY FOUND AND NO PLANS. BETWEEN THEM BEGINS TO FORM A THIN CONNECTION, THEN THIS CONNECTION WILL GROW INTO RELATIONSHIP WITH FURTHER MARRIAGE. IN GENERAL IT HAPPENS AS IN ALL. THEREFORE, AT THE END OF RELATIONSHIP COUPLE OFTEN BEGIN TO BLAME EACH OTHER IN SOME SMALL THINGS THAT ARE DEEPLY ENTRENCHED IN THE MEMORY. WHICH IS JUST IN THESE MOMENTS ARE BEGINNING TO EMERGE. “I TOLD YOU FROM THE VERY BEGINNING, ALL FORGIVING TO YOU AND ALL TURNED A BLIND EYE… YOU RUIN MY WHOLE LIFE…!” OF COURSE NOBODY PERFECT. BUT EVERY PERSON CREATING IN IMAGINATION A CERTAIN IMAGE OF THEIR OWN IDEAL, AND THEN IDEALISING THEIR LOVED ONE. ALL DISSATIAFACTION OF PARTNER, UTOPIAN DREAMS, UNREASONABLE EXPECTATIONS - IS THE REASONS FOR COLLAPSE OF RELATIONS. AND IF AMONG YOU STARTS HAPPEN SOMETHING LIKE THAT, THIS IS A CRISIS IN RELATONS, LOOK FOR THE CAUSE IN THE PAST. WHAT TO DO IN THIS SITUATION? THE BEST WAY THEN INTIMATES OVERCOME THE CRITICAL SITUATIONS THEMSELVES, WITHOUT INTERFERENCE OF OTHERS. SOME PEOPLE USE TO DISCUSS THEIR PROBLEMS WITH FRIENDS, WHOSE PARTICIPATION MAY ONLY ADD FUEL TO THE FIRE. IN THE BEST CASE SITUATION RESOLVES ITSELF.
EVERY FAMILY IS UNIQUE WITH THEIR PROBLEMS. AND THAT FOR SOME GOOD - FOR OTHERS BAD. HERE YOU CAN RESORT TO THE ASSISTANCE OF A NEUTRAL PERSON OR A QUALIFIED PSYCHOLOGIST. IF IT IS DETERMINED THAT IT IS NECESSARY TO PRESERVE FAMILY TIES, A GOOD SPECIALIST WILL TELL YOU HOW TO PRESERVE FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS. HOW DO BEHAVE IN SUCH SITUATIONS OR AVOID THEM IN THE FUTURE. PSYCHOLOGIST CAN SHOW WHAT THE REAL REASON OF MISUNDERSTANDING. IN THE MOMENTS OF EXPERIENCES, WHEN SENSES KEEN, THE MIND IS OBSCURED WITH EMOTIONS, PEOPLE CAN’T SEE THE TRUE CAUSES. GIVE TOO MUCH IMPORTANCE OF THE VARIOUS LITTLE THINGS. BUT THIS DOESN’T MEAN THAT ALL OF THIS ASSISTENCE WILL CONTINUE. MANY ARE RETHINKING THE WHOLE SITUATION, AND SUDDENLY REALISE THAT JUST WOKE UP. AFTER AWAKING FROM THE SLEEP IT’S BETTER TO BUILD A NEW LIFE WITH NEW FORCES, THAN TO GRASP AT THE REMNANTS OF THE PAST NOT HAVING A LOGICAL EXTENSION.